Marriage is so much more than a wedding and honeymoon. It's a commitment between two people to love, serve and honor each other until death separates them. The reality of marriage is often a lot harder than people expect, especially in the earlier years. Conflicts have to be dealt with and two individuals with different family backgrounds and ideas, seek to form a new family unit. An important part of marriage is friendship with each other. Marriage partners play many roles and often friendship falls by the wayside. Take time this week to have a coffee with your spouse and just enjoy their company. Agree that you will talk about fun times and what you like about each other and steer clear of dangerous topics such as finance and housework. There are many ways to express love to a spouse and this is also an important part of marriage. Couples who appreciate each other and show it through little acts of kindness and unexpected gifts, generally have a strong bond.

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The same with your behaviour in a club. There is no such thing as an approach, you are always interacting with the women around you non-verbally. Guys think it doesn't matter what they do when not talking to a woman, or where they stand, but it does. So many times guys will buy me beers, and this is massive for your venue status. Women are watching you with other people. Next is where you locate yourself in the venue. Take notice of where the 10s tend to stand in a venue, thats where you need to stand. Its centrally located. I'll often stand in the one place for 30 minutes, much different to most guys who move around too much. Next is not to be too fricken excited. Be happy, but calm. If you are doing all the work, why does a girl need to approach you? Its no wonder guys don't get approached when they don't give women an opportunity to make an effort. Guys tend to give away 100% of their energy, for free. It has little value. Be excited in your own skin.

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Great article, I have been studying game since I can remember. It’s funny because I just returned from a deployment. Before I left I can honestly say I had finally achieved “sex-worthiness guy” . The status came when I finally had justified everything when I realized I was deploying. My mind set was “I don’t give a fuck I am going to Afghanistan” I was killing it in the clubs, closing whenever I wanted. Then I went and that mind set carried me a little in to my deployment ie. being the only guy in my unit get laid in a war zone lol. Then eventually after a half-year over there I got burned out and all those experiences of sex worthiness were deleted I suppose and when I returned to the US, I was back at square one. I was making social FAX-Paus left and right. I thought I was was completely fucked but after reading your article I realize where I am again and can continue to realign my compass. I know my comment is but thanks for the article!

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Don't be so needy with your eye contact. There eye contact with purpose like you want to fuck someone. And there's eye contact that is wishing someone sees you and likes you. There is eye contact that is given to a woman that is extremely special, and there is eye contact that is checking out every woman in the place like a guy with no standards. Your eye contact is a valuable prize. Instant approaching. When walking into a venue, sense the women who are interested, and immediately go to them, and approach. I've found instant approaching in a venue to be powerful, much more than, approaching after a long while, especially if there was some sort of connection with a girl when you first walked in. I can't count the times I've literally picked up minutes after entering a venue, and I was in such a sexual state, and just went for it immediately.

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Next is being relaxed. Going out for me is almost meditative. I go into a place of heightened awareness. Its hard to explain, its like more of my brain is switched on than normal. But I'm so relaxed, my breathing slows down, and I'm really calm. Guys I see will run around too much, have anxiety, and get negative too easily. I can just go and sit at the bar for 2 hours, and not move, and be happy. Thats really how relaxed I am. Most guys I see are in a rush. Lastly is pay attention to patterns, and repeat shit that works. I know for me the exact stuff I do that gets girls to approach me the most. My lifestyle, my clothes, everything. So many guys do get some nights where they get approached, and never sit down to work out why, journal it, and repeat it.

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